(The Science and Practice of Overcoming Unconscious Bias)
-by jessica nordell
2021
It would be redundant for me to explain this book, as the title and subtitle perform that task admirably. The book lives up to its billing, in the best of ways.
So instead i'll mention some memories the book stirred up.
A few years back, a possible romance were sparking between me and a charming, brilliant black poet. One night, she said she had things to teach me. I nodded, and said we had things to teach each other.
I wasn't wrong...but i wish i could have that moment back, so i could keep my fool white mouth shut. Neither the friendship nor romance proceeded.
Many years ago, i was speaking with a new theater acquaintance, and gave him a playful punch on the shoulder. He looked at me witheringly, and said "don't do that". In the emotionless, patriarchal world into which i was born, any expression of affection between males had to be couched in mockery or pretend violence.
As an adult, i almost never engage in shame or regret...almost.
The depth to which biases are baked into us by the time we're teens...well, i'll let the book speak for itself. Go find it.
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