SOOTHING OUR SOCIAL/SEXUAL/SPIRITUAL STRIFE
Dear naked nurse,
With romance and sex, is there anything i should always know about someone before getting involved?
-randy in Roanoake
Dear randy,
When i'm attracted to someone, i ask myself just one question. How will meeting the greatest lover of their life affect them?
I'm sorry...did you want the playful answer or the serious one (or the playfully serious one, in this case)?
But in a sane world, your question wouldn't make any sense! Sex should be the least self-conscious thing in life, yet somehow we've made it the complete opposite. If anyone ever loved you fearlessly and without walls, your poor brain would explode. But we keep trying, because we need love and touch to stay sane. See many sane people lately?
If you had a comprehensive answer to your question, you'd never leave home. Following pure "instinct" can be a wonderful ride, but begs for personality catastrophe. Choosing someone with your head? Also a disaster waiting to happen. In an ideal world you could love anyone reasonably well, but here...if you don't feel a powerful instant reaction, STAY AWAY. That's a horrible, myopic, anti-social reality, but it's "wise". Overall, the best you can hope for is chemistry plus mutually aligned selfishnesses, a formula that promises happiness for a year or two.
prehistoric pairings,
the naked nurse
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