Dear naked nurse,
Any tips for new lovers?
-smitten in Smyrna
Lovers are made of head, heart, and hormone (though head and "heart" are physiologically non-discrete, they FEEL different). In loving, all that matters is heart and hormone! By the time we're adults, our heads are pretty much useless - broken, neurotic, selfish messes. Nothing good will arise, when heads enter the loving bed.
When a new lover enters our life, we heap all our baggage and expectations upon them. Half of that is inevitable - we don't control our baggage, it controls us. With decades of spiritual practice, you may learn to diminish (or not project) said baggage...but that's no use to your new lover today.
Expectations are all you control...which almost no one does.
Expectations are all you control...which almost no one does.
All of the aforementioned will make your loving better, though not necessarily your living. On that, it might have the opposite effect.
unburdened ungulations,
the naked nurse
unburdened ungulations,
the naked nurse
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